Confusedfather - Welcome to the board. I am new here also and in a similar situation. We lived together for about 2 months after she said she wanted out, while she was looking for a place to live and I tried everything I could think of to be the H she wanted and a better father to her kids but she still ended up moving out and finding her own place. She says she is not in a hurry for a divorce but I think she has a hard time thinking that any change I make is going to last. So stay consistent in what you do. Good luck!
M-45 W-44 2D - 11&13 2SS - 11&17 Married 10/10/10 Bomb 3/5/12 Moved 5 houses away 4/20/12 Back together 9/12 Seperated 6/13 Divorce Final 11/13/13