He's coming by tonight. I texted him about the house (strictly business) He said he would come by and do it tonight. I hadn't asked him to do anything. Just asked if he knew if we had something in the garage. I was uneasy because of course I find it hard to just accept his helpfulness. I replied and thanked him a few times.
I know his LOL is acts of service (almost to a fault) so I should let him do this. I'm going to use this visit as Kaffe said as a test to my changes.
Something in my thread that jumped out of me that I'd forgotten about "You can't talk your way out of a sitch you acted your way into" I don't remember who said that, but it's true.