Putting these here because I think I'd like to look back on it.
Woke up from a dream that I was in my house and saw H through the window coming in the gate. I was upset (noting all my emotions) because I wasn't prepared for visitors. I was in pjs. I went to the door upset and annoyed and tried to compose myself and said you didn't call. He said something about gardening and wanted to show me what he'd done
He cut down the entire hedge on the side of the house and dug a drain or ditch. I was outraged slightly violated and shocked. You can't cut down a hedge my hedge without asking!
We went over to a vehicle that now looking back was similar to one we used to own. Inside we started talking. I was asking him about things he'd done and things going on in his like. It was all GF's work, GF's family, etc etc I was trying to be friendly and upbeat but I did say a few things that looking back were to point out things he was doing wrong and it didn't seem to bother him at all. I brought up something that I knew about but pretended I didn't and he started and then said no, I shouldn't tell you.
Also randomly a fox and a lynx ran past I said I'd never seen one and he said it was the truck
I woke up confused. But at ate same time feeling wonderful in my bed, cozy, and last night for the first time I didn't feel strange going to bed alone, turning off lights, locking up, I felt fine. I noticed that and was happy.
I'm not a professional dream interpreter, but here's my take: this sounds a little to me like you are working on you (the house in your dream). You're not ready for visitors/houseguests because you're still working on you (in your PJs - you're vulnerable). H shows up (because he's around and still in your life). He wants to show you the gardening (something he's doing in his life). But when you see that he's doing things in his life (outside your house) that are irritating it's because it's not what you would do or what you would give him "permission" to do but he's doing it anyway because he's not in your house.
As for the truck part and after, I don't know, but you were talking about GF so understandably it's in your house brain.
But good to take the feelings you noted and think about what they're trying to tell you.
