Another WAW

[25yearsmlc]

gosh I wish I had more time to reply and I promise, I will.

But my initial question is

whether extending the divorce deadline hurts you in any way? If not, then why not let her?

Hey, she does not 'Deserve" it but then again, she bore your two sons and she sounds miserable and possibly ---- ill. So, like I said, if it costs you nothing or very little why fight about that?

Remember your sons are watching you and this insurance issue is NOT a point about you being a doormat issue...make sense?



SO,

She was represented by counsel at the divorce SHE initiated- and you were not.
She then complained that SHE got screwed...wow...

Gee, I guess you could apologize for her not feeling that your zero representation did better than her lawyer did -
but is it possible, just a tiny bit, that

her viewpoint is not objective? Hey, I'm just asking...

more later and as for your main questions, which seem to center around why YOU want HER

I'm wondering the same.

Maybe you want who you believed her to be, or hoped could return---

or maybe you hate being the rejected party more than you hate being in a loveless r?


Keep at it, it does get better. Have a great summer and I'll reply when I have more time.

((( )))


PS

I do believe Alaska is not for everyone. For those who it isn't a good fit for, it can be damn miserable.

Crazy ass space like COLD weather,

not seeing the sun for months,

does weird things to lots of us....enough said, right??