Okay from what I remember of your old thread, it's always been about him. I don't think there is anything that is your fault. he left his last relationship and in turn left his daughter.
Here's my .02. Stop apologizing for things that isn't your fault. It was his fault for leaving his daughter in the first place. It's ridiculous for him to blame you for "keeping him away". He failed as a father, but rather than taking responsibility he chooses to blame you.
How could he possibly accuse you of not being able to see the three of you as a family when she didn't even live with you? It's all in his head. I would actually suggest confronting him about that. Not to get leverage or anything, but to give him a hard dose of the truth. Tell him that he's not a man and that HE was the one who abandoned his child and to stop transferring his guilt and inadequacies onto you.
Right now being passive isn't helping you. Time to do something different.
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Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
