Just a quick additional thought.
I sure wish I could quit my smoking habit. 25 years ago when we first met I was a non-smoker and she smoked. I picked up the habit from her when we dated and have tried to quit lots of times since.
When the W found out she was pregnant with our first she quit cold turkey and hasn't since then.
I don't like my habit, and feel that the S12 and S7 don't like it.
I feel real uncomfortable leaving after a meal to go outside and have a smoke instead of continuing in the family talks.
And lately with all the stress it has picked up alot more. My doctor though recommended that I not try to quit while taking my anti anxiety medication. Strange huh?


M44 / W43
Married 24 / Together 24.5
S12
S7
ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012
Counseling started 5-1-2012
Counseling ended 6-7-2012