Just a quick additional thought. I sure wish I could quit my smoking habit. 25 years ago when we first met I was a non-smoker and she smoked. I picked up the habit from her when we dated and have tried to quit lots of times since. When the W found out she was pregnant with our first she quit cold turkey and hasn't since then. I don't like my habit, and feel that the S12 and S7 don't like it. I feel real uncomfortable leaving after a meal to go outside and have a smoke instead of continuing in the family talks. And lately with all the stress it has picked up alot more. My doctor though recommended that I not try to quit while taking my anti anxiety medication. Strange huh?
M44 / W43 Married 24 / Together 24.5 S12 S7 ILYBNILWY/Bomb: 4-15-2012 Counseling started 5-1-2012 Counseling ended 6-7-2012