A person who will have an MLC is a person that is built brick by brick to have an MLC. It's in their past, its something that is going to happen. IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN no matter what.
Something happened to them and they couldn't deal with it as a child, so it went away in their head, and it comes out later.
Even if you had the BEST marriage in the world, he would still have an MLC, and whil eit is potnetially possible that having the BEST marriage in the world might make his MLC easier for him...he was still going to have it.
And since he is having an MLC until he figures out that it was built into him? That the problems are internal and buried deep?
It is easier and somewhat of a saftey valve for him to blame you for his problems. It is hard to look into the mirror and see the common denominator in a shitstorm is the guy looking back at himself. Eventually he should see it, but right now...it is easier to finger you for his problems.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
