If I had worked he wouldn't have left. That hurts my soul. To think that my kids don't have a dad because of me. I know he believes that.
Don't YOU believe it for a minute....they will come up with ANYthing to justify what they are doing....seriously, my W said some WAYYYY out there things (I just shake my head and laugh about some of them...now)....our mlc'ers know us very, very well...they know where to get the most bang for their buck...
Sandi's 37 rules should have "believe none of what they say, half of what they do" as #1 on the list if dealing with mlc I think sometimes.
I am glad W doesn't appear to remember a lot of what she said to me last fall/winter, for her sake.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
