I was getting confused with i.e. the waiting game, letting them come to you, be a listening ear etc.
I want to say to him basically, you have decided you no longer want me as your wife, and therefore the things you are asking me to do are no longer my responsibility!
If this is what I should be doing at this stage then I sure am happy to do it!!
Speak with actions not words. Yes I think you are on the right track but it may be better to just not say those words and do it through your actions instead.
When you speak to him now you are more likely to get a monster response.
If you can handle that it is OK.
My suggestion is just to say nothing.
Yes you do need boundaries and child support.
If you must speak keep at all keep it business like, when you listen validate what he says.
