Hi, sorry I didn't see anyone had replied, so may have repeated myself in a later post.

Believe me I don't intend to meet his needs! I am honestly detached, it's just some of the advice re MLC I was getting confused with i.e. the waiting game, letting them come to you, be a listening ear etc.

I want to say to him basically, you have decided you no longer want me as your wife, and therefore the things you are asking me to do are no longer my responsibility!

If this is what I should be doing at this stage then I sure am happy to do it!! smile