I am going to need a formal decision from WAH a couple of weeks after the baby is born as to what his intentions are. At the moment as far as I am concerned, he is leaving me to be with OW. However, when this first came out before I knew about OW, he asked me what I wanted him to do. I'd told him it had to be his decision, and if he left he had to tell the kids. He was just worried about not having anywhere to live.
Then he said he was spending sometime with "a male friend" who turned out to be OW and he has been flitting between "home" and OW since. He has not told the kids of any decisions as yet.
I don't want it to come across as pushing an ultimatum (I know the answer is going to be her anyway) and I am not doing it to force him into a decision about our marriage. I don't want the door to be shut, I hope I am following LRT correctly. However, I need to know for the purpose of being able to claim financial support as a single parent.
