The area that looks odd is something that he did when he came to our house last week without telling me he was going to do it....I have no intention of fixing/finishing projects that he started.
The thing with the car is that we got a new "family" car for me....one that he found and researched that would be good and safe for the children we were planning to have. I bought it and was making payments that I couldn't afford. The deal was I'd buy it and make the high payments for a few months until he was done paying off his car, and then he'd put his car payments towards my car. We have a joint account and then separate accounts too. We pay our joint bills through our joint account and our personal ones through the separate account. One of our issues was that he finished paying off his car but then wasn't helping me with my payments (but then decided to go to the Superbowl- $$$$$$ when I was flailing financially). He doesn't bring up the car, but him cutting down the payments to our joint account would mean he was only paying for half the mortgage and no longer paying on the car. I cannot afford the car without his additional payments. I am done school this week and will be contacting a lawyer.
Me-32 H-31 M-1yr, 9mos/T-6.5yrs No kids, 3 pets H estranged father passes away- 8/11 Bomb- 1/15/12 Began LRT- 4/1/12
