My Marriage

[MrD]

"What complaints did she have about you?"
1. Leaving her and the boys on the day of her dads funeral.
I agree that was a wrong thing to do, and I am deeply sorry for that.
2. Not spending enough time with the boys and her.
I realized this after she mentioned it. My parents didn't spend much time with me, especially my dad. I wish she would have made this argument to me earlier. But I've really enjoyed this now as I'm doing this alot lately.
3. Givining her evil looks when she sat on the couch all day and sigh when I walked by her.
This is the big one I wish I'd handeled differently. I was afraid to confront her on this one in a caring way. Still I'm not sure what I should have done instead.


"Which ones made you cringe? Which do you agree with?"
#3 defiantly, and all of them

"What have you done to change those things in you?"
I read alot on how to read my wife and to communicate properly.
I'm still learning how to read her and the communication is difficult to employ right now.