I honestly don't think he will realise just how much I have done in this marriage for him, until he has to do it for himself!
I am in confusion about how to deal with MLC stuff, because of the added complication of baby coming very soon!
I currently can't GAL as such, although my pre-occupation is with the kids and baby and therefore I don't even have time to think about WAH!
I maintain friendly acquaintence stance, but he still has certain expecations of me, which I am trying to break. Do you respond to a MLC every whim, or do you say "actually, remember you have chosen to not be with me, so therefore you need to not-be-with- me".
He expects me to still attend to his needs, when I need to attend to mine and those of the children.
I have to play things so carefully at the moment and just get through the next few weeks with the birth. I am sure that whilst we are currently maintaining some sort of status quo now, there is going to be some slide back soon from either one of us.
