The lawn is not too long. There are also still a lot of ants- can you spray again? Also, did you ever clean that gutter? I notice when it rains it spills out in that corner very heavily. Also, what is going on with that area where you planted hasta? Do you intend on finishing that off? It looks kind of odd.
In terms of the house, I still have not decided what I would like to do. Before we meet I intend of meeting with a lawyer to go over what my rights are in certain things. It is my expectation that if we sell the house I get the XXXX that I paid into the down payment right off the top. The bathroom will also need to be fixed before it goes on the market if we do sell. Other things will need to be done to the house too and my expectation is that you would help with those things, both financially and physically.
Also, in terms of my car, I have documentation of you saying you would be helping me pay for it, from both before it was purchased and from after we separated. I want to see what my rights are in terms of this as well.
I am not doing this to screw you, or get revenge, but I intend on sticking up for myself and what I believe is right in this situation which you brought upon yourself. I am glad you are happy with where you are in life. I am actually doing really well. I have realized through this process just how amazingly strong I am, and how much love and support I have from my friends, family and even colleagues. I'm sorry that people are saying hurtful things about your behaviors. People have been nothing but supportive of me.
