I gave WAH his accounts (I actually completed the accounts and printed them off - for my own peace of mind that everything was reconciled!), but all the other paperwork and everything else needs to be sorted.
He took them away today and has since text that the person who he thought would be able to do them can't and who did it before? Erm that would be me!. So I text back that everything he needed was there as was the contact of the accountant, and nothing else.
It seems to me that he doesn't want me as his wife, but he would quite like me to be like a mother helping their child settle in to college! When one is in MLC and you are trying to distance yourself, let them find themselves and give them the space but be prepared to be a listening ear, how far does this extend?
Am I doing right by establishing boundaries such as you need to sort things out that you want/need to do - for yourself? You need to work out how to do these things by yourself?
