don't handle it - indifference and detachment means no matter what he is or isn't doing - you stay consistent in your behavior towards him - on all levels.

hey -good one on the FB pics of him miserable. and it breaking your thoughts on him being totally different with her. that helps me a lot . h said SO MUCH about that after the bomb - that it really affected and i was imagining him leading this supercool jet set life with her, when he's with her.

but you are soooo right - they take the misery with them - and ow can't see it yet because it's honeymoon stage.

stay strong girl.hey and don't care whether he misses you - that's not being detached right? me, myself, i'm still exploring the parameters of detachment!!

zig


me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"