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I think yesterday was a turning point for me. Before I was worry about what I did because I was concern how she would take it and did not what to get her upset. Then like a bolt, I thought, worry about upsetting her, what the ****,

YAY good for you!!!!! It is a turning point!

Aside from her cheating you though you have to make decisions based on how YOU feel not on how she'll feel about the decision. That will come will come with detachment. Has anyone suggested CoDependancy no more. It was a real eye opener about my thought patterns.

Unless you have reason to believe that D would be in danger, then yes, let her go with W.

Have you two set up a schedule?