Because two family members had commented on a photo of H, I saw it in my FB timeline. It was a photo of him and GF and her family at what looked like a wedding.
Oddly it didn't really bother me. I could go into a few of the reasons but what happened next is important.
Because it didn't bother me, I kinda tested myself and looked at his profile.
One of her friends had put up 3 pics of him.
Two were the photos of the family posing together. The third was one of her friends posing for the camera but in the background was him leaning up against a fence looking absolutely MISERABLE. GF was stood about two steps away and up from him and some guy was kinda looking at him.
Let me just tell you I don't miss at all going to family events, formal functions, business functions, parties at friends at houses, anything that involves socializing and having to baby sit him or circulating myself and glancing over and there he is with this MISERABLE POUTING FACE.
I laughed out loud. And then I took a screen shot of the photo on my phone. I had started to believe that he was only that way towards the end, he was different in the beginning of our R, and the difference was me or him being unhappy. Either way HE HASN'T CHANGED!
yes, I wish that he'd find happiness and not go to events that he won't enjoy. But it goes a long way towards stopping my fantasies of him suddenly being a different partner with a new GF.
Also he certainly misses us. This meant he texted me the day after this wedding maybe after he got home, then he made plans with S yesterday and last week when he'd come back from this weekend away with her, he texted me first thing the next morning and asked to come over that night. I don't want to be the "I stepped out of my comfort zone with GF" now I want to check in with Brit, I'm not sure how to handle that.
