no problem except I forgot to add the rest of the quote...
I had mentioned something to my DB coach (a GODSEND woman, btw)
about my h "needing to see the consequences of HIS actions & where they had gotten HIM" and yada yada blah blah blah....(really my anger and pride MOSTLY talking)
and she said the part about it
not being my job as his spouse to teach him the consequences "B/C LIFE DOES THAT FOR THEM"....not us....
and she was right. My h learned his own lessons and I would not wish them on anyone.
much as I have my own regrets...he has it worse. Know what I mean?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016