Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

"it's NOT our job to 'teach our spouse a lesson' or 'show them the consequences of their actions',


I've actually been trying to remember this quote - I knew there was something like it out there, I just couldn't remember the details. Thanks for reminding me, 25!


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12