Did you let your wife know that you wouldn't be responding to her texts while she was engaging in her "personal issues."
**No.
Have you thought yet about what sorts of things WOULD merit in responding to in your mind? Where exactly is your boundary of communication with her now? Think about it a bit so you are prepared as she tests it. Because she will. Throwing volleys of rocks over your wall here and there. Dashing back and forth across your front line. To see if you are still there.
**To be honest I have not, but looking at my past, I feel I've been there way to often for her. Now if it's something that D related and it NEEDS to be answer, then I will.
I want to take this back to what I said before, though, dscl
How did you guys get here?
**From my side I will have to admit I neglected her. I look back now and I see years of her trying to engage me in her daily life and I did not. I own that part of the issue,but I refuse when she tries to make me feel that this gave her the OK to go to OM.
What is your role in the breakdown of your M? What mistakes have you made?
See above
How would you like to better yourself?
**I do have an issue that I get annoyed very quirky and I have started working on that. Can't say that I've fixed it but I have taken baby step.
How could you GAL?
**This one is a little hard at the moment, full time work full time dad. But I have started going to the gym and I'm going to join workshops in my office.
Have you read DR/DB yet?
**Reading DR now.
M-41 W-41 D-7 M- 10yrs I still love you, but 4-25-12 Think she might have EA/PA 5-17-12 Confirmed PA 6-9-12
