but YES you are letting that negative voice in you color nearly ALL your interactions with your wife still.
You even project them into the future with son, how he won't care--(super needy sounding and super NOT attractive, even to a kid)
and the stuff you say about money is beginning to reek...plus I doubt it's objectively accurate anyhow.
ANd now you also want to recolor the past to see how in REALITY she just used YOU to have a family....and geez, isn't it obvious she could say the exact same thing about YOU?
You "used her as a vessel" b/c you had trouble with fertility and then when you became a dad you neglected her even more b/c you thought it was HER JOB to care for the son and not yours and you weren't even going to compliment her b/c hey, it might not help....
SEE how she could see it? I DO NOT SEE IT THAT WAY but can you finally realize that so much of this is subjective perspective?
and read the Dyer line again. How we see things IS reality or becomes it.
Crimson-You are better than this.
You know, we hammer the GAL talk a lot around here b/c it works.
But I don't hear about it much from YOU.
What are you doing to become a happier more loving man? And a more interesting man?
What NEW hobbies/classes/groups/activities are you engaged in these days? Any new friends in your world?
I'm telling you that stuff works, buddy. Give it a shot!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
