Thanks Snodderly! I always enjoy reading your responses! He seemed more normal the brief time I spoke with him this morning. He actually called me on the phone, first time since BD day. I had a crazy morning. As I was getting ready to leave for work the power went out, I had to figure out the garage door.... once I got the car out I found some long camping forks and stuck them in the holes as an attempt to lock it. Meanwhile my dad called me because he locked himself out of the house and needed me to come let him in! lol I texted H to let him know about the power, the text read, "I don't mean to bother you but I wanted to let you know the power went out before I left. Stuck big camping forks in the garage door to keep it locked." He called me a few minutes after I sent to text to find out what was going on. I explained I think a transformer blew or something because I heard a loud pop and then the power went out. I asked what I need to do to reset the garage door when it comes back on, he told me he would take care of it when he gets home. (which surprised me since he hasn't even mowed the lawn or cleaned the bathroom since last year!) I thanked him and told him to have a good day. He told me to have a good day too. Also, my craziness of following the toothbrush.... it's actually been in the holder since the day he threw out the pictures.
Don't know if these are good signs, but I will take it. No expectations of course. He still asks to give me money for groceries, and he apparently forgot about the cable and electric bill when I told him Thursday I would be paying them when I got paid on Friday, he said ok, thank you, I forgot about them......
I'm still waiting for a new car to show up.... kinda surprised it hasn't yet....
Oh hippie wedding was AWESOME!!!!!! btw, just in case anyone was wondering. I'll write more later, gotta get to VBS.
No expectations of course. 
