oops I meant that as a quote:

You say in that post best if I don't contact you

then you say wonder if I should text her

then you say dim is working (less than 24 hours later) because she wants to have ice cream

then she says weather's bad can we put this off.

CONSISTENCY is key! They won't believe your words only your actions.

Trust me we all think that the communication we have is needed in some way and not breaking the 37 rules. It is. There isn't a million clauses. Just take D. I'm not convinced she wants to go. Just that she saw it on the calendar and then came up with an excuse. That's mind reading I know. But you have to separate yourself and start living your life independently