Introducing us and then carrying on 2 weeks later?
But you did tell him that you were going to divorce him once child turned 18, not once, but 3 times, correct? and at least one of these times was pre-mlc, right?
Not to excuse his behavior, at all, but...if my W wasn't in MLC, I would have taken her threats to D in a completely different light than I did.
I might have, especially after the third time, concluded that I was just a paycheck/meal ticket so why bother investing anything more into the R? Or, since I "knew" what her plan was, and that her "plan" proved she wasn't committed or loved me anymore, yada, yada, why not start looking at other options, since once child is 18 she would be done and gone?
My W is in MLC, so I learned not to believe her (Sandi's 37 rules), but if she had said it 3 times NOT in MLC.....?
Just giving you a male perspective, and that being said, your H should have smelled the coffee the first time and got IC and you two into MC...but some of us guys are funny that way (and I was one, btw).
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
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