Alamo,
I would put your faith in your lawyers.

I think your w is full of sh!t. If she seriously thought you were a threat - why did she let you see your S the past 14 months since your separation.

Because she felt bad. I don't think so...

Mom's are like bears when protecting their young...

... and even if there was an argument that it was because she felt bad - putting her son in that situation doesn't speak highly of her either.

So let your lawyer do ALL the leg work. And I do mean ALL.

You are a compassionate, loving guy who cares deeply about your w BUT There is no place for him right now.

The love you need to show your w needs to be in the form of tough love and I've not seen you do that in the past 14 months.

So if you can't (which is completely ok btw) - rely on the people who can.

Hang in there!

((( )))

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.