Thanks Snodderly It's true what you say about the depression, he does fit the description of an MLC. I think H can handle expenses but because he's a free spender, he wants me to help pay bills but I don't want to help finance some of his toys. I think he liked the OW because she's got a big degree at his company she has lotza dough I am sure. Her husband cheated on her so she divorced him. How do ya like them apples!
I have had to deal with alot of disrespect in our marriage and he used to say I had to earn his respect. Maybe he was right. My reactions to his slights were to get angry and then withdraw or be sad and it didn't faze him. During the time he had this PA, I was taking care of my mom and they paid me some money to help. But during that time, he was having coffee and lunch etc. with this woman. During a work christmas party he introduced me to her. Later he introduced 2 of my kids to her at a church where she's a big deal. Right after christmas he told me they started the affair. And I was suspecting something in January because that's when he started acting funny. Found out in Feb and my mom passed in March.
Am I wrong or does it seem like this was an extremely hateful and disrectful act for him during such a hard time in my life? Introducing us and then carrying on 2 weeks later?
I am reading other posts so much information and some actually calms me down when I see others handling it and I read good advice.
