I'm back, on my own.

[canadianMrs.]

Most of the time I'm very comfortable with where I am at; very little contact with H. This is still new for us, just since April when I'd had enough of the lies/disrespect.
I read other posts where members are trying to have a civil relationship with their W/, even doing things toghether as a family or just the 2 of them. I do miss that sometimes, at least for my kids. When H and I were doing those things, life was easier for them. It helped with the transition. How do you do this and not have it be cake eating? I feel my H is prone to that. I don't trust him at all right now, and feel uncomfortable around him, so I can't see me going back to spending time with him any time soon. I guess I'm wondering how people here do this, when do they feel they are in a place to do so, and when to just draw the line and stay detached.