Crimson...I'm a old timer here that does not post much....but
I think that you need to fold this letter up and put it in a safe place and let it stay there.....and put it out of your mind.
From what I can tell It sounds ( and I have read all you threads from the beginning ) that U married a very insecure gal..that with your help and support is "finding her wings "
Let her fly If it is meant to be she will come back........
I have 42 years in with the same man and when we seperated he gave me the chance to miss him to vision my life single without him...I left him and I returned with a whole new attitude BUT I did alot of work on myself I feel your wife has not.
and once again (as Iv'e seen here on your thread ) What is crimson doing to "get a life " Go back to the basics of DB Go back to sandi's rules.get a hobby...find something that makes U happy, I know your son's your pride and joy and your so fortunate to have him..but lets turn this around ( " if daddy aint happy no ones happy!)
Yes i know where U are at with your Div...I was right at the drop off after 24 years of marriage...all my hubby had to do was sign and by the grace of god he/ we put a stop to it and dissolved the div and not our marriage.
Hurt , anger , and words spoken can't be taken back...but U can take back your life.
It will work out in the long run one way or the other...
