sd, as long as you tie all your behaviors to H, you will not be able to detach. "to disengage and separate or remove" (from the dictionary.

pretend he's a roommate. do what you would do based on that type of relationship.

stop worrying about HIM. you are driving yourself crazy (and i might add, some of us who keep telling the the same things over and over...no offense crazy)

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing