TM, Now, I understand the friend's concern...your response was extremely honest, came from the heart and you had put a lot of thought into it.
People who care about us see a lot of the nastiness that we have dealt w/and only want what is best for us. It's difficult for them to understand our situations, but I'm glad she was there for both of you, but most importantly, her concern for your well being. Hopefully, your response was enough to ease her concern just a little bit.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
