Ok, I need help please. You might want to call this a 180? I believe in my previous post I mentioned that I told my W a couple dates that I am going to by busy. I don’t think she liked that, it gave her the impression that I was seeing someone else. I guess it could be perceived as putting up a wall but I consider it space and detaching. Now she’s reacted with a wall in return, I think it hurt her. I am confident that my W has been feeling guilty about initiating the separation and maybe that’s why she’s been so nice to me. I don’t think I want her to feel guilty about the separation, do I? And now she seems hurt by my remarks I think that might have lessened her guilt, which could be a good thing?
Me(M):37 W:42 T: 14 M: 11 S: 1 D: 1 W wanted separation 5/5 Stopped living together 5/5
