Rollercoaster - Am I tall enough for this ride?

[labug]

So I asked H why he pulled his phone out when I was talking to him last night. He says he was "checking to see if SS had called" since he had called/texted him earlier. Um. Right at that precise moment? Ok?

What were you feeling when he pulled the phone out?

I was actually thinking he was scrolling through his phone to see how many times he had talked to her. He thinks I still check phone records, when I haven't done that in months.

Then I asked him why he called OW to tell her to stop posting to FB. I said to me, it seemed like yet another excuse for them to be in contact. And that I didn't want it to look like I was making him do it (even though that's what I want to do).

What did you want him to do when you brought up OW posting to SS FB?

I knew he had told her not to respond to anything he was tagged in. I asked him if SS was included in that. I had already told him that I did not appreciate her responding to everything SS posted. I know she was doing it on purpose. (from a Twitter post to me from her)

He said "Its not about excuses. You expressed that you did not like her posting to SS' FB page so I told her not to do it." I asked, "So she does whatever you say?". He says no. I said so what did she say? He said she just said Ok and sorry. I just said Wow and walked out of the room.

This is where I'm really confused.

Help me understand this.

What did you not understand? My response or his? I said Wow because we were sitting there having a conversation about this like it was regular conversation. The way he responded was one of only a few times where my feelings have been taken into consideration during this whole thing.

I had to read this a few times.

In the first post it sounded to me like you were pi$$ed that he had tried to do what he thought you wanted him to do. The written word, it's difficult when there's no inflection.

The last part sounds good.

I guess it was one of those "you had to be there" conversations.