So, I know deep breaths and a big smile!

Do I pick up after him in the lounge, or do I ask him politely to pick up after himself? considering I am now 2 weeks away from giving birth!

The kids are at a friends house for tea, so it would just be us for a meal before he goes out. Do I be the bigger person and do a proper meal, or just serve toast on the basis that we can't afford any more food this week!

I am able to do all this with a smile!

Or would MY 180 be "sort yourself out loser?"