So when I picked up D11 for our trip to Orlando W was there and obviously (& rightly) made a fuss over our D. But what was odd for me was the complete lack of angst or nerves. Could it be that the detaching process is working, maybe even nearing the end? I cannot work out whether to be happy or sad. W noticed I am sure, she had a perplexed look on her face when I just wandered up and said "oh, hello, is she ready?" followed up with a "so, what are you up to today" in a light and airy, slightly disinterested manner. One of her friends (someone I know well too) showed up at that point so the conversation went in another direction, but I felt like I was talking to neighbors. In fact, felt more warmth towards the friend than my W. For the second or third time in the last few months I could not ell but notice how stressed and unwell she looked, but cannot comment. Hopefully her summer off will help recharge her batteries.
M 53, W 48 T 25, M 18 S 15, D 11 "I'me done!" 6/13/2010 Exit started 8/21/2011 ILYBNILWY W consults with L 9/2011, no papers filed Separated 1/16/2012