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Re: My story, my progress, my hope Tinman #2252978 06/11/12 10:33 AM
Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,698 T Truegritter Member
Truegritter Member T Joined: Feb 2010 Posts: 2,698	Originally Posted By: Tinman but she gave them up to try and make me more secure in our relationship. My kids and I were very needy and she gave and gave and I took advantage of that. Healthy people don't allow people to do that for them. It is a form of codependency. Healthy people don't give up things they value for others sake. It is a form of codepency. Healthy people are responsible for their own emotional happiness. She gave up things hoping you would give something back or she felt her sacrifice was what was required for her happiness. And when that didn't happen, she resented you for it. This dynamic that evolved in your M is something you may want to look at. If you Google codependency you will find information on this that my be helpful. There is a book that is very good which I cannot name here because of the forum rules. But it will help you do it "No more" My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am

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My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/07/12 04:52 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Cadet	06/09/12 01:57 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Truegritter	06/09/12 12:48 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	scaredsilly	06/09/12 01:27 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/10/12 01:18 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/11/12 12:07 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Truegritter	06/11/12 10:33 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	sayitaintso	06/11/12 03:29 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Brit45	06/11/12 05:44 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/11/12 07:39 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/12/12 02:26 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/13/12 12:00 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/13/12 04:07 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/13/12 08:51 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/14/12 12:21 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/14/12 12:03 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/14/12 04:57 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Mach1	06/20/12 12:14 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/20/12 03:58 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Mach1	06/20/12 05:08 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/20/12 07:19 PM
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Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/20/12 10:39 PM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/21/12 12:41 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	labug	06/21/12 12:44 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/21/12 12:51 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	scaredsilly	06/21/12 01:36 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	labug	06/21/12 02:18 AM
Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/21/12 02:47 AM
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Re: My story, my progress, my hope	Tinman	06/21/12 01:08 PM
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Re: My story, my progress, my hope	cat04	06/21/12 01:48 PM
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