This scares me to think that my R may be headed in this direction. You are so strong to be doing this. I know how hard this is to live with knowing your H has someone else and won't give you the answers you're needing.
It's one thing to know your H has had a PA/EA but its another for him to continue it and continue a M with you. I don't have to deal with my H on a daily basis like you, so I seriously commend you for keeping it together. You are a tough cookie!!
I love your humor throughout your posts. It's good to see you make light of your sitch through the troubling times.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.