This scares me to think that my R may be headed in this direction. You are so strong to be doing this. I know how hard this is to live with knowing your H has someone else and won't give you the answers you're needing.

It's one thing to know your H has had a PA/EA but its another for him to continue it and continue a M with you. I don't have to deal with my H on a daily basis like you, so I seriously commend you for keeping it together. You are a tough cookie!!

I love your humor throughout your posts. It's good to see you make light of your sitch through the troubling times.


Me: 32 H: 32
M 9 yrs
#1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2
Bomb 8/12/11
H moved out 8/14/11
PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12
Got my own place 8/25/12
H & OW move in together 9/15/12
Still married.