Everwhere is walking distance if you have the time

[ClingingToHope]

Interesting. I realized this on the way home from picking up D9 from a friend's apartment. Today is my one year Divorsary. D was final a year ago today. I was working in Chicago and did not attend final court session.

Vacation going well so far. Great Friday night with girls. Saturday had its ups and downs between D9 and D13. D13 is just taking everything sooooo seriously.

D9 woke up this morning in a lousy mood and I lost it for a few minutes. I calmed down and waited out her little fit and things have gone well since.

I'm just tired. Physically tired instead of mentally and emotionally. Lots of swimming so far. Tennis this morning before they got up.

Now I'm waiting for my sister to call so we can go over her transactions for her books.

D13 is being quite a loner. She hasn't asked to go to or asked to have any friends over. We've gone on two long walks and she says she's tired of her friends and wants time away. She also wants time away from her family. Next week she's away at theater camp.

Chicago trip is in two days. That will be trying, memorable and tiring.

Saw a friend at church today. He's divorced. I've mentioned him on here. He doesn't have a great relationship with his kids and his XW pulls stuff like picking up his kids on his weekends if they are doing stuff closer to her than him. Yesterday, his son had a graduation party to go to. The XW picked him up and kept him for the night and then they went to church together. It was my friend's weekend. My XW would not do that. It's clear my time is my time.

Another blessing I forget to count.