Yes the fear makes us hold on! I leaned that from codependent no more. And yes you see more and more ways you were holding on and more levels of detachment I'm learning that too.
Yes and no. We grew up in the same culture but his family lives here. Most of them. He spent a lot of time here growing up but it was more me that wanted to move I think? I don't know. It really hurt that after he met her he said he was finally enjoying living here instead of feeling as though "it was happening around him" but i think thst falls under believe nothing be ause now i think back to trips we took and he's rewriting history because we had great times! that's why I say no one else shares our history of being from the same city it's traditions and food and culture.
