This is my first time posting so I will give you a little background information. I have been married for 12 years, with four beautiful children. I thought we had the perfect marriage until April 30, when my wife told me she had been unhappy for years and she was moving out as soon as she could. The reasons given was a lack of affection and taking her for granted, not showing I care and placing a priority on my family. I agree with all of them although I never realized it before. I did everything wrong the first week...begging her not to leave, promising I would change, constantly pressuring her to tell me if we would get back together after she leaves, etc. A week after she told me she was leaving I discovered she was having a EA but I am unsure of a PA. I angrily confronted her about it which she denied.
So, she is still in the home while she tries to find a place. I have stopped talking about us, instead started making the changes I said I would. Helping out around the house, focusing on being a better father, talking with her about work, kids, etc, and trying to project confidence.
She seems very comfortable with me and I can still make her laugh. What I need help with is looking for signs that she may be starting to change her mind. I can't tell if we are relating as a married couple ore just as friends. Any signs I should look for and build on?
M-31, W32 S12, S9, S8, D3 M 12 Years Bomb dropped: 4/30/12 ("I need to be happy") EA discovered: 5/8/12 W denied PA unsure Moved out 7/6/12