Alamo, I got your intent but you should still talk to your lawyer first. She may not let you in her place at this point. She might allege that you are trying to intimidate your son into changing his story by going over there. For your son's sake, you need to protect yourself. Just MHO

DaddyLS-- our age gap is 15 years. I don't think that the age differrence is really a factor. We met when I was transferred to his town for work. We are in the same profession, have similar interests, and are historical contemporaries, meaning that I don't think that "Pearl Harbor" was an actress smile Our issues are more his erratic mental states and anxieties, I think. He probably says the same about me....