Ugh....still really struggling with how I am going to tell W I'm done living like this....and she just keeps going downhill. This is just so miserable. She went through a box (3L) of wine in the last 2 days. Started drinking at 3pm both days. I know this has to stop...but I also think she's just acting this way until I break and become the bad guy. How do I end this and have her understand that it's her unwillingness to move forward that has brought us to this point??


BITS
M: 35
W: 35
T14, M11
D9, S6
ILYBINILY: June 09
Unofficially Separated (long distance): 1/2/11
W came home: 3/17/11
EE: July 2012
Dropped the rope: Oct 2012
Piecing: April 2013
Not piecing: April 2014
Stuck.