Hi, anyhope, good to know you are at peace with yourself. I can't imagine what your H is thinking. He has to have sensed that he has lost his importance. Yet he can't seem to get it into his brain that only he can fix himself. Yeah, he has been telling you A has ended, but when will you catch him in another lie? Another thing he doesn't understand; he's gonna get caught when he lies. I hope you've been having a great time, just being happy doing your own thing.
I went back and was reading how your doctor said your H wasn't giving you something you needed, and it was the emotional support he couldn't give you. As well as being so judgmental about everything you did. He just wants you to do what he wants you to do, and he wants you to do it his way, on his timetable. I wonder if eventually he will start to feel the loss of YOU, when he sees how strong you are becoming, and are not going to do it HIS way.
