Marrage's Days look numbered

[NotGivingUp!]

Communication channels began to break down years ago. Living apart after W relocated for work while I stayed behind to sell our home added to the comm channel breakdown. Have felt unwanted, unloved, and like a 2nd class citizen in my marriage for sometime. Ironically enough, we both seem to have very similar complaints. However; I want to work the issues out where W just wants out. I have been going since Apr 16, 2012 without W knowing if she was willing to work on our marriage. May 11/12, W asked for the Big D. We began both couples and individual counseling that weekend. W has put little into the counseling...which was originally her idea. Am rapidly loosing hope. I am not ready to give up on our marriage, but the longer I go with ZERO indication of reconciliation, the harder it becomes to keep holding on to hope. Am prepared to begin LRT next week.