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I think you should clear this with your lawyer or, at the very least, bring a third party as a witness so she does not allege that you threatened her etc. Better safe than sorry. You need to be cautious now.

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I think you should clear this with your lawyer or, at the very least, bring a third party as a witness so she does not allege that you threatened her etc. Better safe than sorry. You need to be cautious now.


The detective did mention yesterday that perhaps I can discuss something out to be able to see our son under her supervision. The idea is to hopefully drop by my wife's place for literally 1 minute (everyday, if possible) to give our son a hug and kiss goodnight, just so he knows that I'm still here for him.


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unbidden,

Any comments on you and your H 17 year age gap, when you met, some of the difficulties presented by the age gap? Perhaps that some of these difficulties weren't really difficult for you two?

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Alamo, I got your intent but you should still talk to your lawyer first. She may not let you in her place at this point. She might allege that you are trying to intimidate your son into changing his story by going over there. For your son's sake, you need to protect yourself. Just MHO

DaddyLS-- our age gap is 15 years. I don't think that the age differrence is really a factor. We met when I was transferred to his town for work. We are in the same profession, have similar interests, and are historical contemporaries, meaning that I don't think that "Pearl Harbor" was an actress smile Our issues are more his erratic mental states and anxieties, I think. He probably says the same about me....

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Good to hear. You sound supportive and like you guys actually like each other.

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Here's my .02. Talk to your L about getting the charges waived. I would strongly suggest NOT to talk to your W about this. And definitely do not keep asking her if it's okay to see your son and DO NOT consent to being with your son with just her present.

She's already shown that she will do anything to ruin your reputation. She can easily say that she witnessed you doing something inappropriate and you will go to jail.

Right now she is only looking out for herself. How much more do you need to take from her until you say enough is enough?


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Your lawyer advised you, so you should probably listen to that advice first.


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