[quote[ Looking back there are absolutely behaviors of my own that I would change, but I don't think those behaviors alone caused this [/quote]
No it wasn't but it's important that recognize the part we played in the breakdown in the R and work on those things so that we can have better R's in the future.
I'm very happy for you. People keep saying to me gosh it's already June. Can't believe 2012 already or whatever. Truth is I feel like I let half the year slip away wallowing in unhappiness. The past month in finding this board has been the most helpful in YEARS.
The anger has turned to disappointment and hopefully it'll turn to acceptance and then maybe at some point we can happy for the time we shared (the good times) and know that the others were needed to bring us to where we are now (in the future)
Please keep posting your revelations and growth will inspire others. I learn so much from everyone.
