this is your clue that he is not going willingly and that he will have some resentment about going.
my opinion is that you should go to IC and not mention MC to him. you seem to be looking for a quick fix with MC. i know you feel you have a time period here to get things fixed but these things don't always get resolved on our schedules.
try to stop obsessing and just work on you and not him. get involved in things that don't have to do with your relationship: classes, yoga, concerts, friends, etc. it will help you take your focus off him and put it on you, where it belongs.
give it a try.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing
