bustingout,

After putting a little more thought into it. To me, that line means proceed with caution.

We don't know why our spouses do some of the things they do. It could be because they care or it could be them being manipulative. Afterall, they are living in their own fantasy.

That's why we should keep our expectations at 0.

I think if we take that line literal, we try to determine what is true and what is not. In the big picture, it doesn't matter. Do what is within our own control.

Hope this helps.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa