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[BklynMom]

Do your best not to get too emotional and come up with a game plan. I always feel better when I have a program.

My suggestions:
1. Go as dark as possible and put him on a schedule with the kids. Every other weekend and school night a week.
2. Eliminate him from your life financially. Speak to a lawyer, accountant who ever and sever your financial ties ASAP.

I know it is awful the thought of this OW but I really believe they need to fulfill this fantasy, not all sexual in order to get to the other side.

Please hang in there.